Book Recommendation: Choices in Deafness

Have you heard of the book "What to Expect When You're Expecting"? If you have then you'll know that that series of books is considered a parenting bible. I began reading them when I was pregnant with Katelyn but quickly put them down. I felt as if they were turning me into a worrier and an alarmist. They were so thorough that I began to worry if every symptom I felt during pregnancy was connected to one of the horrible diseases/conditions they were making you aware of. Many people do not experience theses books in the same way, but once my mindset had set in, there was no stopping me from worrying, so, I put down the books.

Now, I have found a book similar for parents of Deaf children. "Choices in Deafness" takes you from the process of the initial hearing testing all the way through high school graduation. It talks about the many disorders related to deafness along with the teaching strategies for Deaf children. Although no two deaf children are alike, it strives to cover the entire spectrum to give a broad approach to possible solutions.

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There were two chapters that I knew did not pertain to Kate, so I skipped them. Knowing myself, they would bring out the worrier in me. Luckily, I know Katelyn's condition is caused by a genetic abnormality, not a symptom of a larger health issue. This has helped my worrying self stay at bay. 

Overall, after completing the book, I feel much more able to research her hearing condition and be a more engaged parent. Each chapter contained several testimonials from real parents telling the story of their journey with their children. It felt good to know that we are not alone. This book talks about hearing aids and cochlear implants as well, making it relevant for any parent/family member that has a child with a hearing loss. 

This book was recommended by my Aunt Ruth who learned about it from a friend. After searching the internet, I have had difficulty finding resources for parents of children that have hearing aids. Cochlear implants are much easier to research. It was great to read this book and get the information I had been looking for all in one place.

Now I am armed with a baseline of knowledge to start our journey together. Hoping this recommendation can help someone else as well!